In fine southern tradition, the father of the groom will serve as best man for the wedding. Dad seems to have vetted this role, serving as best man in Trey's wedding a few years earlier.
Trey is Ben's older brother. Trey and Ben remained close through college - both attending UNC-CH, though Trey claims he had a "real major" so their colleges experiences were different. Trey is a very successful computer programmer for Microsoft (the bad guys) in Seattle, WA.
The ever famous Andrew Ginn has been Ben's best friend since 3rd grade. Not only did Ben and Andrew attend the same schools Elementary - College at UNC, they were fraternity brothers in Delta Upsilon and roomed together in the same apartment all four years of college. Similar to Ben J., Andrew does "business stuff" at his job in Charlotte, NC.
Mark Linehan has been Ben's friend since high school even though he eventually attended that 'other school' in Raleigh. Mark has an affinity for music and DJs prime-time slots for NC State's student radio. Mark is currently majoring in Economics.
The 'other ben" has been friends with the Groom since 3rd grade. They've gone to Elementary, Middle and High School together before Ben ended up at Davidson College. Ben J. works in Charlotte, NC doing "business stuff".
Allison is Ben's long time friend and work colleague at UNC-CH. She is currently pursuing a PhD in Forensic Psychology at Florida International University. She has the recognition of being the first Groomsmaid in a Brumley wedding!
Adam is currently a co-worker and classmate of Ben in Philly. He has worked in youth counseling settings and is currently pursuing a master's degree in Mental Health Counseling at UPenn.